The youngsters are driven by the wish to find partners, the excitement is so much that the actions are mostly controlled by the heart rather than the head. A wrong choice may lead to separation or frustration.
I may happen that young people get confused taking such important decisions while choosing a partner.
One fails to realize that it is one of the crucial issues in life and the slightest error can affect the entire future. Hence, it is essential to be very cautious, very careful while making the important choice of a life-partner.
This word LIFE partner is significant. The man you choose will partner you throughout life, from the day you take the oath of marriage.Let the questions be only supportive. You can ask indirect questions. It is with tact and skill that you have to find out and learn the kind of character you are dealing with.Do not be in a hurry to jump to conclusions. Even if you learn about a fact, cross check it with someone else. Take enough time – it is a one-time decision.Everything is in your hands. Your happiness is in your hands. So do not be influenced by any other person. Think for yourself because this is your life.
What is the nature of your job? Do you like to do this kind of work?
Suppose you have a choice to do business? What business will you like to run?
In which college did you study? What are some of your friends doing now? Are you in touch with them?
I suppose you must be having many friends…….
And what about your colleagues at the workplace?
Do you meet often? What do you all do when you are together?
Picnics? Parties? Oh!! Do you also drink with them? Never tasted!!
Are there any girls in your group? Which one do you like most? What does she do currently? Well…any special reason why you like her?
Do you ever go for outings with your parents?
Do you attend weddings in the family? Do you have many relatives? What are some of your cousins doing now?
Do you like to live in a bungalow or an apartment?
When was the last time you went to watch a movie? Do you go every week? Every month? Who is your favourite actor?
Are you also interested in music? And what about games?